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SupporttheDecisionYouMake !

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Whenyoumakeadeepdecisiontodosomethingortomakeachange, itisagoodideatocreateanenvironmentthatsupportsandsustainsthedecision.

Thisisespeciallyimportantasthereareprobablyalreadyinplaceoldhabitsthatsupportpreviousdecisions, habitsthatmayhavesomelifeoftheirown, andthatmaytendtocontinueontheirown…outofhabit…untilandunlesstheyarereplacedwithhabitsthatsupportyournewdecision.

Howcanyoucreateanenvironmentthatsupportsadecision? Therearemanyways, :

, , atacelebrationevent, whenyouwanttowatchwhatyoueat — insteadofallowingpeopletopressureyouinto “enjoying” yourselfbyeatingwhatyouUSEDtoeat, askthemtohelpyoukeepyourselfontrack, andtohelpyouwardoffotherpeoplewhomightpressyoutoeatinyouroldways.

/orlivingspacethatsupportsandisinlinewithyournewdecision.

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, floorspacefornewfurnitureoranentertainmentcenter, orspaceforanexercisebike….

, andaskfortheirhelpandsupport.

’tacton...thenconsiderkeepingitasecret, andusingallthatenergytowardsimplementingyournewdecision, andSHOWpeopletheresults.

: educatepeopleaboutyourdecision, andassociatelesswiththosewhosupportyourolddecision, andassociatemorewithpeoplewhowillgladlysupportyournewdecision.

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, andtakeactionsthatsupportyournewdecision, now…, now.

当你明确要做某件事情或做某项改变时,应该营造一个支持你的环境。

尤其是当原来的观点已经成为一种习惯,而且这种习惯有一定的生命力,会一直存在下去,直到你的观点取代它成为一种习惯。

怎样营造支持你的决定的环境呢?根据不同的情况有许多不同的方法。下面有几种方法供你选择。

1.寻求他人来支持自己的新决定。例如,在某次庆典上,你想自己挑选饭菜,不想被别人邀请吃你以前习惯吃的饭菜,你可以告诉一些人你的想法,让他们帮你。

2.对你的工作和生活环境做一下表面的改变,让它们和你的新决定一致。

3.选择一套适合你的新决定的服装。

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