佚名/Anonymous
’,whenyouarriveonlysecondsbeforethelecturebegins,I’,,Idon’tmind,becauseafteramonthofdesperatelydesiringtoaskyouout,todayI’,becauselettingyouknowIlikeyouseemsasriskytomeasskydivingintothesea.
.“Hewaslikeagirlfriend,”’,she’llsay,“Hey,letsgogetayogurt.”
,hetoldmehewouldhaveunderstoodhasIpaidformydinner.“Ivepracticallystoppedtreatingwomenondates,”hesaiddefensively.“Itssaferandmorecomfortablewhenweeachpayforourselves.”JohnhasassumedthatbecauseIgraciouslyacceptedhistreat,,andIregrettedallowinghimto.
Larry,ontheotherhand,,,Iaskedpolitely,“HowmuchdoIoweyou?”Larrymuttered,“Uh,uh,youreallydontowemeanything,butifyouinsist……”
Insist,Ithought,,mygesturewasasuggestionofrejection.
Slidingintohisdesk,hetapsmyshoulderandsays,“Hi,Laura,whatsup?”
“Goodmorning,”Ianswerwithnervouschills,“Hey,howwouldyouliketohavelunchafterclassonFriday?”
“Youmeanafterthemidterm?”hesaysencouragingly.“Idlovetogotolunchwithyou.”“Wehaveadate.”Ismile.
每天,我都急切地等待你来上课,迫不及待地想和你相视一笑,互问早安。有些日子,我变得极其烦躁,只因为你在上课前几秒钟才走进教室。我期盼背后传来你的脚步声,期盼听到你的声音,表面上却假装看《加州日报》。你今天又迟到了,然而,我并不介意。因为,这一个月来,我一直渴望与你约会,今天,我将要实现这个愿望。鼓励我吧,因为让你知道我喜欢你,需要像从高空跳伞落入大海一样的勇气。
我的室友和她的男友在坠入情网之前,做了四个月的普通朋友。他们一起看电影,一起吃饭,并且经常与都认识的朋友聚会。吃饭时,他们轮流买单。有一次,我的室友说:“他就像一个女性朋友。”说这话时,她笑得脸都涨红了。在这种友谊关系之下,男人和女人都会感觉很轻松,并且能够更容易地了解彼此。我的另一个朋友认为,人们的社交生活正在因随意的约会而得到改进。当想让一个小伙子知道她对他有好感时,她就会说:“嘿,我们一起去喝酸奶吧。”