Thefinalstageoflossisacceptance, ' ' thavetomeanyouagreewiththecompany' sactions—justthatyou' vedecidedtomoveonwithyourlife.
, youmaystartsleepingmore (orless), eatingmore (orless), .
Itmaybehardtobelieveatfirst, butyoucanultimatelyusethisexperiencetoyouradvantage—tofindanother, perhapsevenbetterjob;tostrengthenyourrelationshipwithyourfamily;:
Step1
Getemotionalsupport.
Becauseit' seasytofeelunsettledandvulnerable, ' llneedpeoplewhowilllistenandprovideasafehavenforyoutovent, cry, , afellowcoworkerinthesamesituation, , youmightwanttojoinanonlinediscussiongroup(seestep2below) .
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Remember, , surroundyourselfwiththosewhocanmakeyoufeelhopefulandconfidentaboutthistransition.
Don' , andyet, helpmaybewhatyouneedmosttomoveforward.
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Step2
Seekprofessionalguidance.
, yourlocalunemploymentofficeshouldhavehelpfulresources.
? , onlinesuccessstories, andavarietyofmessageboards—nottomentionalargedatabaseofopenjoblistings.
Ifpossible, trynottoletfearcauseyoutograbthefirstnewjobyou' reoffered (unlessit' stherightone!).' tbeafraidtolookforashort-term "transitionposition" thatwillpaythebillswhileyoucontinueyoursearch.
Step3
Strengthenfamilyties.
, andgiveeveryoneaturntospeak.
Onceyou' velandedanewjob, -to-date, stayintouchwithrecruitersaboutthejobmarket, , manypeoplesaythatitgavethemthepushtheyneededtostartanewlife!
今天,几乎随便拿起一张报纸,你就能看到有关失业的消息。假如你(或者你的家人)不幸成为其中的一员,你或许会感到被击垮了,无所适从,或者干脆惊慌失措。