佚名/Anonymous
Sometimespeoplecomeintoyourlifeandyoucometorealizethattheyweremeanttobethere, toservesomesortofpurpose, teachyoualesson, (possiblyyourroommate, neighbor, co-worker, long-lostfriend, lover, orevenacompletestranger),butwhenyoulockeyeswiththem, youknowinaninstantthattheywillaffectyourlifeinsomeprofoundway.
Andsometimesthingshappentoyouthatmayseemhorrible, painful, andunfairatfirst, butinreflectionyoufindthatwithoutovercomingthoseobstaclesyouwouldhaveneverrealizedyourpotential, strength, , injury, love, brilliantachievements, , whatevertheymaybe, lifewouldbelikeasmoothlypaved, straight, , butdullandutterlypointless.
Thepeopleyoumeetwhoaffectyourlife, andthesuccessanddownfallsyouexperience, , , betraysyou, orbreaksyourheart, forgivethem, , lovethembackunconditionally, notonlybecausetheyloveyou, butbecauseinaway, , , , breakfree, , forifyoudon'tbelieveinyourself, itwillbehardforotherstobelieveinyou.
, ifyoulovesomeonetellhimorher, foryouneverknowwhattomorrowmayhaveinstore.
人们不时地走进你的生活,有时你会觉察出,他们是出于某种特定目的:给你一个教训,帮你认清自己或你理想中的自己。你永远不知道这些人是谁(可能是你的室友、邻居、同事、久违的朋友、爱人,甚至完全是一个陌生人)。一旦你开始关注他们,很快便会发现,他们影响了你的生活,而且往往很深刻。
有时,发生在你身上的事情看似可怕、痛苦或不公平,但细细思量之后,你会发现,如果没有克服这些障碍,你就永远不可能认识到自己的潜力、能力、毅力,或者真实的内心世界。世事皆非出于偶然。疾病、伤痛、爱情,辉煌的成就和彻底的失败,这一切都是检验你灵魂的限度。不论它们以何种方式出现,没有这些细微的考验,生活会如一条平坦笔直的大道,无止境地延伸下去,也许安逸舒适,却枯燥乏味,毫无意义。