DesignYourOwnLife
佚名 / Anonymous
“Nowberealistic...” OUCH！！！Realisticbaseduponwhat？ Theexpectationsofsociety？ Thefearsofourparentswhowantedto “save” usthepainofunmetexpectationsandfailure？ Thecapacityandcapabilityofourfriendsandsiblings？ Nowbeingrealisticcanbeawayofmanagingyourexpectationsandmakingsureyouaresafe， howeveritcanalsobeagreatexcusenottoriskandamarvelousstoryofwhyyoushouldnoteventryinthefirstplace.
， theabilitytomanifestandco-createourreality.
Haveyoubeenloweringyourwantsorblockingyourdreams， passionandvision？ Ifthatistrueforyou， forthenext5minutesIamgoingtoaskyoutonotberealistic， tonotcensoryourwants， .
Whatdoyouwant？ Whatdoyouwanttobe， doandhave？ Liveonthebeach， travelroundtheworld， startafamily， startabusiness， createalovingrelationship， learnanotherlanguage， becomeamillionaire， retire， play， teachandsharewhatyouknow， expressyourcreativity...Whatdoyouwant？ Allowyourselftogopastthesurfaceanswersandgettowhatitisthatyoutrulywant.
Asthepicturebecomesclearerandclearer， Iwantyoutograbapieceofpaperandtitleit “MyIdealLife”.Writedownyourideallife， whereyouare， howyoufeel， whoyouarewith， thequalityofyourrelationships， ， ！Yourwrittenideallifebecomesyourblueprinttomanifesteverythingyouwanttobe， ！
Whenitcomestomanifestingyourdreams， IbelievethatRichardBachsaiditbest， “， however.”
一个所谓的“成长的现实”就是对你生命中的可能与不可能的顺从和接受。想象一下你对自己或别人对你说过多少次“现在现实点……”天啊！现实的基础是什么？是社会的希望？父母想减少我们与期望的结果失之交臂或失败的痛苦，那是父母的担心吗？还是我们朋友和亲人的才能和能力？而今，现实是管理自己的期望和确保自己安全的一种方法，然而，这也是我们甚至不敢去尝试一次冒险，或一段非凡经历的一个很好的借口。
