拉塞尔·康威/RussellConwell
"Attitude".
Letmequotetheanonymouswriter:
"ThelongerIlive, , tome, , thaneducation, thanmoney, thancircumstances, thanfailures, thansuccesses, , , achurchorahome.
", andthatisourattitude.
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Thismeansthatnomatterwhathappenstoyou, itishowyoureactorrespondtoitthatisimportant.
Youcan'tcontrolorinfluencecertaineventsinlife—earthquake, sabotage, terroristbombings, beingstruckbylightning, , evenwhenyouaretheunfortunatevictimofanaccident.
Youcanchoosetomoanandgroanaboutyourmisfortune, , .
Youcouldbetauntedordiscriminatedagainstifyoulostaleg, ', doesitmakeyouanyhappier, determined, perseveringorresourceful?
Therightattitudetotakeisnottoletinsults, sarcasm, rudeness, ? Itdoesn', youareshowingthatyouareemotionallyweaker.
Showthatyouareemotionallystronger, thatyoudonothavetotradeinsultswithinsults, .
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Veryoften, wenegativelyover-reactto, or "read" toomuchinto, 'sacaseofseeingwhatwewanttosee, regardinganissueasbigwhenitcouldreallybeinsignificant.
Evenifpeopleinrealityaredownrightinhuman, .
, , ifagolfercanstillplaywithametalarm, thenatrainerwholosesbothlegsorarmscanstillfindsomeotherwaystoteach.
Whenyoulosehope, whenyoudespair, whenyoublamepeopleallthetime, whenyoudonotevenwanttotryandpersevere, thenyouchoosetomakelifemeaninglessforyourself.
Whatisthevalueofintellect, imagination, education, knowledge, wisdom, experience, competenceandtalentifyouadoptanegativeattitudeeveryday?
Toexpandonwhatthewriterinthechurchleafletsaid, .
四月里，我在悉尼出席一个研讨会时，收到别人给我的一份演讲稿。其中的内容讲的是感悟“态度”。
