DearSon
佚名 / Anonymous
Dearson,
ThedaythatyouseemeoldandIamalreadynot, havepatienceandtrytounderstandme...
IfIgetdirtywheneating...ifIcannotdress....
If, whenIspeaktoyou, Irepeatthesamethingsthousandandonetimes...donotinterruptme...listentome.
Whenyouweresmall, Ihadtoreadtoyouthousandandonetimesthesamestoryuntilyougettosleep...
WhenIdonotwanttohaveashower, neithershamemenorscoldme...RememberwhenIhadtochaseyouwiththousandexcusesIinvented, inorderthatyouwantedtobath...
Whenyouseemyignoranceonnewtechnologies...givemethenecessarytimeandnotlookatmewithyourmockingsmile...Itaughtyouhowtodosomanythings...toeatgood, todresswell...toconfrontlife...
WhenatsomemomentIlosethememoryorthethreadofourconversation...letmehavethenecessarytimetoremember...andifIcannotdoit, donotbecomenervous...asthemostimportantthingisnotmyconversationbutsurelytobewithyouandtohaveyoulisteningtome...
IfeverIdonotwanttoeat, .
Whenmytiredlegsdonotallowmewalk...givemeyourhand...thesamewayIdidwhenyougaveyourfirststeps.
AndwhensomedayIsaytoyouthatIdonotwanttoliveanymore...thatIwanttodie...donotgetangry...somedayyouwillunderstand...Trytounderstandthatmyageisnotlivedbutsurvived.
Somedayyouwilldiscoverthat, despitemymistakes, IalwayswantedthebestthingforyouandthatItriedtopreparethewayforyou...
Youmustnotfeelsad, , ....
Iloveyou, son...
Yourfather
亲爱的孩子:
当你看到我日渐衰老,昔日的强壮不在之时,请耐心地努力去了解我……
如果我吃东西时弄得一团糟……如果我无法穿戴整齐……请耐心点。你要记得,我教你做这些事情时曾花费了多少时间。
如果,当我总是一再重复相同的事情……请不要打断我……请耐心听我说……
在你很小的时候,我必须一遍又一遍地重复讲同一个故事给你听,直到你入睡……